The 4 th of July is a wonderful day of celebration when friends and family gather to commemorate the birth of our nation. Backyard barbecues and picnics, parades and concerts, and other festive events dominate the occasion. No 4 th of July celebration, however, is truly complete unless we stop to recognize the people who have sacrificed for our freedom: our veterans.
This year during your celebration, set aside some time to honor veterans. Whether you have members of the military in your family, want to instill in your children a healthy respect for military service, or simply love our country, it’s important to find ways to support those who sacrifice so much to protect our freedoms. Here, we offer some suggestions of thoughtful ways to show your appreciation.
- Take your kids to the final resting place of a relative who served in the military . You can take a flower arrangement, wreath, or flag with you, to decorate your loved one’s resting place. Telling children stories of family members who served our country can give them a sense of connection that they’ll carry into adulthood.
- Invite a military family to your celebration. Military families serve alongside their service members, sacrificing precious family time that most of us take for granted. They are willing to set aside plans they may have had, in order to support their family member in service of our country. On holidays like 4 th of July, take the opportunity to reach out and see how you can support these families and show your appreciation.
- Visit a retired vet. VA hospitals and veterans’ homes often have lonely residents who would enjoy a visit from someone who appreciates their service. If you’re involved with a scouting troop or youth group, it can be a nice gesture to plan an outing to sing to or otherwise interact with retired veterans. By the same token, simply sitting with a vet and listening to stories can be rewarding to you both.
- Donate to a veteran’s charity . You can donate money or goods, but it can be even more meaningful to donate time. Giving a day to work with or for veterans can enrich your life as well as theirs.
- Be courteous about fireworks: many vets suffer from PTSD. As we remember veterans on the 4 th of July, it’s important to remember that many of them have been through significant trauma. Fireworks may seem celebratory to you, but to many vets they are stressful. Show compassion when planning your celebration, and respect the concerns of others.
At Evergreen Cemetery, Mortuary & Crematory, we believe in honoring veterans. That’s why we provide honorable and dignified arrangements for veterans, along with many other veterans’ services. Call 520.257.4831 to learn more, or visit the Veterans Services page on our website.